If you are exploring with your partner and have decided to try a new type of relationship sexually, you may find it is time for you to push your boundaries. After you have had an open and honest conversation with your partner, you can talk about what you would both like to try when you want to try something new in your relationship.
Some couples decide they want to try exploring a dominant and submissive relationship. Although this has been viewed as taboo in many cases, this type of relationship can actually increase intimacy and help partner communication in places other than the bedroom.
If you already have experience with this type of relationship, and you are the dominant or submissive, you need to speak with your partner and find out what types of BDSM gear you may want to purchase to try next. Let’s see some must-have pieces that can help spice up your relationship even more and take it to the next level!
3 must-have BDSM gear items for you and your partner!
If you are an advanced person in the world of BDSM, you may find the beginner accessories are not doing it anymore. If you have already tried other sex toys and accessories, it can be time to try a garter belt, handcuffs, and thigh cuffs.
Garter belt
A garter belt is a safe and easy accessory to use with a dominant and submissive relationship. The garter belt can be various materials that are up to your personal preference, such as ribbon, patterned, satin, leather, or other materials. For beginners, we recommend using silk or satin garter belts so they do not hurt your skin. For advanced users, you can try other BDSM gear like leather garter belts and harnesses.
Handcuffs
One of the most popular types of BDSM gear you can get as an advanced user is a set of handcuffs. Your handcuffs can be various types of materials that work for you and your partner’s needs, such as fuzzy, cotton, or leather. Leather wrist and ankle cuffs are popular for those who want to push their boundaries and explore using restraints in their relationship. The consensual feeling should come from your partner, and not necessarily the handcuffs on your wrists.
Thigh cuffs
Similar to handcuffs, thigh cuffs are a great option for BDSM gear for advanced users. For those who are just trying this for the first time, using softer materials is friendlier in the relationship. However, for advanced users, try leather thigh cuffs for a new experience.
Conclusion
When choosing advanced BDSM gear, make sure you and your partner agree on the type to purchase and what both of you want to try. Having this type of relationship demands open and honest communication, so make sure you and your partner express what you are looking for in this BDSM relationship. While trying out new dynamics in your partnership, ensure you always feel respected, safe, and in control – even if you are the submissive in this dominant and submissive relationship.